Mid 2017 had been a rough phase of my life as i was facing with depression problems. Those days i was living in Nagpur and was pursuing my graduation. First 2 years i lived with my elder brother, we were living in same room so their was no problem having him as i shared every problem with him and as a elder brother he was always their helping me out. But soon he completed his graduation and left for Mumbai. I had always been an extrovert. And being an extrovert i never thought that their might come a day were i will have to live on by myself i.e without any company of my own like my brother. So soon the phase started.
I never thought that will affect me so much as i started losing control on myself. I started getting angry on minor mistakes of my own. From the day start to the end i remained in frustration. Things got worse when that stared affecting my grades and it became more worse as those were the days when campus recruitment were going to start. I wanted to sort and figure out ways to overcome that and supersede happiness but was unable to concentrate. I stared picking up fights with friends who were going to help me overcome that. I was devastated and all alone.
I was reading a magazine once in which i encountered a line and i quote ,”The past cannot be changed. The future is yet in your powers” those were the line which gave me a boost overcome my depression. I made a firm decision with self that what-so-ever happens i have to surpass this. With this i started making short terms goals which contained mainly of things like Meditating (which helped me a lot), Yoga, eating a healthy diet, spending an hour with friends and so on. In short it can be said that MAKING SELF BUSY in physical activities was my main motive so that all the negative thoughts will degrade slowly to pave a way for happiness and prosperity. I started to see positive side in every negative situations and problems. This helped me get to see a different perspective in every problem. I was regaining my titivating appearance. While i was recovering by myself i helped the one who were facing the same problem as i was facing with the depression as i knew how physically and mentally it damaged the body and made one pessimist within.
So, This was all that i wanted to share to show that what so ever problem you face in your life, always try to see the positive side and the effects of what you think to overcome the problems as it might be a motivation for the one who see you as a inspiration to overcome theirs.
Let me tell you my story…
As a toddler like everyone my dream of becoming something when i group up changed like an absconding cloud in sky. My parents too were not having any idea as to what should be done with my future as my family was facing tough times. So as i grew up i went for higher studies. I was guided by my elder brother not having any idea about what, why and how i’m going to do with my higher studies. Before that i have changed my dream from becoming a navy officer to businessman and then again to join NDA (National Defense Academy). I was just a guy squandering time. I was crazy to join defense and the reason is as before ‘Unknown’. This was the time i made a terrible mistake of preparing for NDA exam more than preparing for semesters exam. I got a total of 6 backlogs in three semesters ruining my academic record. And this was the time i came to know ,’what so ever happens never keep GOAL’s left undecided’. I faced the toughest time in my life but it eventually made me tougher then i ever was. I learned the best thing out of this experience that…
Always plan everything what you’re going to do whether it is related to carrier, itinerary or planning a schedule for examination studies. Because a wise man once said ,”TIME IS MONEY, USE IT BENIGNLY“
The more you keep you’re decision tortuous with your conscious the more you’ll get thrown away from success.